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How to collect RSVPs on your wedding website

Online RSVPs save the spreadsheet phase entirely. Guests open your wedding website, say yes or no, and answer your questions — meal choice, song request, plus-one — in the same minute.

How to collect RSVPs

  1. Open your wedding in the editor and add the RSVP section.
  2. Choose the questions you want answered — attendance, meal preferences, and anything else.
  3. Publish the site and send the link to your guests.
  4. Watch responses arrive in one place, with the guest list kept in sync.

Tip: Guests can change their answer

Every guest gets an edit link with their RSVP, so a changed plan is one click — no phone calls, no text threads.

Answers flow straight into the guest list, so the final headcount and the meal counts come from the same source of truth.

With real numbers in hand, the budget starts behaving — the count drives catering, seating, and everything else.